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Author Post #2340382 Mar 12, 2010 @ 04:33PM
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So I actually signed up on a dating site, since I'm going to hit the 10 year anniversary of being omgwtfsingle and I'm trying to find someone who will put up with a gamer. Is there ever a good way to break that I play a priest with a big guild on tues/thurs during the week?
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Author Post #2342059 Mar 13, 2010 @ 06:17AM
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Hopefully they find you a fellow gamer... otherwise it's like the skeleton in the closet.


*Tarthys on his 3rd date*

"So uh... I play video games." - Tarthys

"Oh thats cool, what like Rock band or?" - Date of Tarthys

"Umm yes... but I also play MMO's" - Tarthys

"What's that?" - Date of Tarthys

"Multiplayer game online... I play with a bunch of friends and I kinda have to log in almost every night, will that be a problem?" - Tarthys

"Check please." - Date of Tarthys



So yeah... I've never found a good way to approach the subject. My ex-fiance kinda just dealt with it. She tried playing but didn't really like anything... much less gaming. Best of luck, hope you find the holy grail of gamer chicks!
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Author Post #2342344 Mar 13, 2010 @ 08:16AM
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Don't mention gaming at all. Just let them experience that part of your life as they get to know you. Either they will accept it or not.

Always make sure she has an orgasm b4 you do.

Poof!

Good looking wife that can also pay the bills.
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Author Post #2342895 Mar 13, 2010 @ 11:28AM
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I'd like to say there is a good way to bring up other commitments to a new date... but there just isnt.. Whether its your commitments to gaming or your commitments to family. Maybe I'm a bit jaded, but.. I find some women dont like guys to have any other commitments but them.. Not most, but some.

As was said above, the easiest is to find a girl that games so she will also have those type of commitments but that is much easier said then done lol There seem to be many more then there use to be.. but still arent enough to go around apparently <.< lol

My girl isnt a gamer. More then that she hates Wow, though I contest that she hasnt given it enough of a chance. She refuses to play it. Early on in our relationship, I avoided the topic, as much as possible. I did most of my gaming when she was away, work, sleeping, etc.

Even now.. if I'm in Wow, odds are pretty good she is busy elsewhere. If she is around I try to involve her in my plans. If she isnt interested in my suggestions then we do things separate, yet still together, so we can talk etc. For instance, she plays with the Wii, or PS3 or watches tv in the same room while I play Wow. It's not a perfect solution but it is a type of compromise. So.. you can make a relationship work without finding a gamer but it does take work on your part.
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Author Post #2343397 Mar 13, 2010 @ 02:31PM
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Make sure to include that you are a wookie in your profile or they might be shocked when they meet you. smile

Meeting another gaming chick would be win. Or at least one who accepts the life long commitment. It just proves you aren't afraid of commitment, right?

Either way, good luck bro! I hope it works out for you.
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Author Post #2350527 Mar 15, 2010 @ 11:02AM
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When I was single, Match.com coupled with Myspace provided 3 very fun flings. Granted, the women were completely WTFPSYCHO but that was part of the fun smile
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Author Post #2352405 Mar 15, 2010 @ 05:18PM
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lmao
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Author Post #2352633 Mar 15, 2010 @ 06:08PM
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I added wookiee and said I was heavy so there is no mistaking it.
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Author Post #2355671 Mar 16, 2010 @ 10:22AM
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I call shennanigans on the whoe dating site stuff... tongue
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Author Post #2356630 Mar 16, 2010 @ 12:53PM
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why not just try Geek2Geek? Isn't that what it was made for? Otherwise when she asks what you do in your free time just say I like to play World of Warcraft with some of my friends. if she bolts then she isn't worth it to begin with.
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Author Post #2362471 Mar 17, 2010 @ 06:47PM
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I'm on there, too, but already paid out money to match.com already. :/ They are pretty scary there -- not wanting a bi girl who'd go for anything with legs.
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Author Post #2362899 Mar 17, 2010 @ 10:01PM
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#2362471 Clockwork Golem wrote:

... bi girl who'd go for anything with legs.



there's girls like this available?? *smooths back hair*
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Author Post #2363232 Mar 18, 2010 @ 12:54AM
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They are called "Crack whores" Make sure you triple-bag it, is all I'm saying lol
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Author Post #2363309 Mar 18, 2010 @ 01:28AM
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#2363232 Terreo wrote:

They are called "Crack whores" Make sure you triple-bag it, is all I'm saying lol



jeez. nvm. nothing's ever made me feel as claustrophobic as that image.
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Author Post #2363881 Mar 18, 2010 @ 05:20AM
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Crack whores need love too! The Rock of Love. Just, you know, minus Bret Michaels.

Crack rock.
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Author Post #2365047 Mar 18, 2010 @ 10:36AM
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You guys are crazy. Just make this a dating site!

For example:

I am a female WoW addict who plays several male characters and RPs them all, leads an RP-PvP guild, and is active in two other RP guilds... Which of me would you like to date? ^_^

Well, ok. That's not really an example.
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Author Post #2365089 Mar 18, 2010 @ 10:46AM
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#2365047 Tyroel Hellreaver wrote:

You guys are crazy. Just make this a dating site!

For example:

I am a female WoW addict who plays several male characters and RPs them all, leads an RP-PvP guild, and is active in two other RP guilds... Which of me would you like to date? ^_^

Well, ok. That's not really an example.



which of you can pay my rent?
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Author Post #2365515 Mar 18, 2010 @ 12:31PM
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#2363309 Tonatiuh wrote:

#2363232 Terreo wrote:

They are called "Crack whores" Make sure you triple-bag it, is all I'm saying lol



jeez. nvm. nothing's ever made me feel as claustrophobic as that image.



you could always use tin foil? O.o
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Author Post #2366357 Mar 18, 2010 @ 03:58PM
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This turned scary, fast.
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Author Post #2366368 Mar 18, 2010 @ 04:00PM
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hell, this can get much worse. It's still on the first page. evil
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